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Become Part Of The Solution
After someone you know has been raped, you, and others in your family, may begin to examine your own attitudes about women, sexual violence and your basic beliefs about our culture and society. You will become more aware of the risks women and children face and the damage that rape causes. You will probably become angry when others ignore the pain of sexual violence.

Once the situation with the victim has stabilized, you can help in the work to stop rape and assist victims. There are many ways to help, and some ideas are listed below:

  • Offer support to other victims and their families.
  • Educate others about rape.
  • Interrupt sexist jokes and jokes about rape.
  • Donate your time and money to your local rape crisis center.
  • Talk to your children about sexual violence.
  • Teach them the facts, and teach them not to hurt others.
  • Teach them how to get help if they are afraid or if someone hurts them.
  • Tell your local schools that you want them to sponsor prevention programs on date rape, sexual harassment and other sexual violence.
  • Challenge the media. Music, television, movies, print media and the Internet show women as sex objects. This reinforces myths about rape. Contact producers and sponsors, and ask them not to exploit women.
  • Say thank you to police and prosecutors who take rape seriously. If they don’t take it seriously, ask them to do so.
  • Encourage your legislators to support laws that help sexual assault victims.

Educate Yourself
You may need to learn more about rape and recovery to deal with your feelings and to be able to support the victim. Your local rape crisis center may be able to share resources with you about sexual assault and the recovery process.


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