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After The Assault: Rape Trauma Syndrome
If you have been sexually assaulted, you may find yourself struggling to make sense of what has happened to you. The day before the assault your life may have been going according to plan. Now you have to face the pain of sexual victimization and the impact of violence in your life.

You may experience a roller coaster of different emotional and physical reactions from the assault, which can be difficult for anyone, male or female. These reactions may leave you feeling very alone and isolated from the experience of others.

At times like this, it can be comforting to know that what you are feeling is normal and that others have experienced similar reactions. This pattern of reactions shown by many victims of sexual assault is called Rape Trauma Syndrome.

Common physical reactions include:

  • Changes in sleep patterns, insomnia, fatigue
  • Changes in appetite
  • Nausea or vomiting
  • Nightmares, night terrors
  • Headaches, bone aches, burning muscles
  • Stress
  • Loss of sexual feelings or interest

Common emotional reactions include:

  • Shock
  • Numbness
  • Unpredictable emotions (calm, laughing, crying, hysteria, rage)
  • Disorientation, mental confusion
  • Memory gaps, blackouts
  • Inability to concentrate
  • Loss of coping skills
  • Fear, shame, guilt, anxiety, minimizing
  • Disbelief
  • Poor self worth
  • Feeling “hallow,” sadness, grief
  • Anger

These are just some of the various reactions to sexual assault. It is important to remember that there is no “normal” reaction to sexual assault. You may have some, all or none of these reactions.


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